Okay, maybe I was a little harsh about Party Girl.
I saw her at work today and we're cool. I guess I was pissed about the whole thing because I'd been there a few times before and that's just how I react.
I still stand by my instinct, I don't like that about people when they blow you off like that. And she is still a flake. But I still like her, and I'm still interested in getting to know her better.
That's something I want to work on this year-- my temper. I tend to fly off the handle or take things a little too personally. It might be my Aries rising, who knows? I just know I'm quick to anger when it comes to personal attacks, comments, etc. Anything else, you couldn't change my face of stone, but yeah, I tend to flare up pretty quick on the personal front. I figure it's okay to tease, but don't use personal information against someone unless it's just the two of you.
I'm always angry for the moment, then I calm down either the next day or so. But I tend not to remember things like that, which makes me a terrible arguer, and a better forgiver.
Well... Temper, temper.
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